Bulsha:- Do you ever find yourself keeping track of who texted who first? This kind of habit is completely symptomatic of playing games and puts your true intentions (aka getting to know each other) on the back burner.
While you’re busy trying to appear like the more desirable half of the equation, you’re missing out on opportunities to actually ENJOY one another’s company.
Try to remember your end game (GET IT?!) is to connect, not string one another along. You’re hiding your true selves.
So often, TV, movies and magazines will tell us “X Great Tips For Landing A Man” or “How To Make a Guy Fall In Love With You,” when this is the truth: True love comes from natural compatibility, NOT pretending to be someone other than who you are.
By following a third party’s advice, you are taking on someone else’s idea of how courting in a relationship should go, and blurring where your real feelings, attitudes and opinions end and where the person you are pretending to be begins. Be yourself. Be yourself. Be yourself. Your real soulmate will love you for you.
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Xafiiska Shabakada Bulsha
UK- Leicester united kingdom
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