Bulsha:- It’s totally romantic to think about the “old days” when dating someone was clearly labeled “going steady” and wearing a pin was a great way to indicate if someone was in a relationship or not.
Today, there is so much gray area that dating has become a more complicated obstacle course than what our parents and grandparents had to navigate.
It might be tempting to play games, like lead someone on, play hard to get or alter your social media to represent a certain image, to name a few.
But it’s called “playing games” for a reason.
You’re toying with another person or manipulating the situation for a specific outcome. The problem with this kind of behavior is it can get a little muddy and go all “Inception” on you.
By manifesting one facade, you might find that you have to maintain a lie, creating a confusing web of communication and false expectations. Keeping track of all those false appearances is exhausting, man.
Likely, one or both of you will be left wondering what the hell is actually going on. Here’s how playing games is stopping you from finding true love.
Read more: http://elitedaily.com/dating/playing-games-finding-true-love/1755430/
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Xafiiska Shabakada Bulsha
UK- Leicester united kingdom
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